Discover the art of getting what you want
(without becoming a wanker)
You’ve got years of experience and you bring great results to your clients, but you’re still overworked, underpaid, and unappreciated?
A prospect says your price is too high. Before you know it, you've offered a discount you didn't want to give.
A client asks for "just one small extra thing." You say yes, again.
And three hours later you're still working on it, unpaid, wondering why you agreed to this.
Your team member delivers something below standard. You fix it yourself at 10pm, because “it was faster that way.”
Did you know women in business do 60% more unpaid work than men?
I know this because I used to be just like you.
For years, I worked for peanuts, did a lot of work pro bono, spent extra time on many client sessions without ever charging for it, often trying harder than my clients to solve their problems. And I nearly had to close down my business because I struggled to ask for the sale or even just a referral.
But when I realized the problem wasn’t that I was weak, but that I lacked a specific skill, and then mastered that skill, it completely transformed my business and my life.
I'm Anita, a Business Psychologist and Coach, and I help women who run a service-based business confidently ask for what they want, set boundaries and navigate hard conversations — so they can finally earn what they’re worth without working more hours or harming their relationships.
I do that by teaching them the one skill that dramatically improves the outcomes in their business and life: ASSERTIVENESS.
Assertiveness is the art of getting what you want without force or manipulation.
Women come to me when they’re done overdelivering, underpricing, and fixing everyone else’s problems while putting their own needs last, but don’t know how to do it without seeming aggressive and selfish, or pushing away clients and the people they care about.
Maybe you’ve been considering raising your prices so they better reflect your expertise and the value you bring.
Maybe you want to grow your business and close more deals, but you lack the confidence to approach higher-caliber clients.
Maybe you want to start saying no to requests that drain you without feeling guilty about it.
Maybe you’re sick of doing unpaid work for clients who don’t even say thank you, and feeling resentful afterward.
Maybe you want to set some rules with your team or address their poor performance in a way that is effective, without sounding harsh or damaging relationships.
Or maybe you want to feel less overloaded, more energized, and free to enjoy your life, while others take on some of the load you’ve been carrying.
Either way, you can be one of two people:
You can be the person who keeps on sacrificing your money, time, energy and general wellbeing to appease people who never give back the same way.
Or you can learn how to step into your power and start getting back from your business as much as you give.
“Yeah, but what if I’m naturally not assertive?”
Look, I get it. You may have always been the kind of woman who avoids conflict, smooths things over, and hopes it will get easier with age and experience. And maybe you’ve tried to stand up for yourself before, only to feel guilty, awkward, or shut down.
But I’m living proof that this can change — because once I mastered the skill of assertiveness, I realized I didn’t have to go against my values or become abrasive to get the outcomes I wanted.
Now I can handle difficult conversations, boundary violations, and unreasonable demands without becoming harsh or shrinking back, and I can ask for what I want without worrying that I’m too much. And this has dramatically improved my confidence, the hours I work, and my bank account.
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